{"id":221,"date":"2007-09-04T10:16:12","date_gmt":"2007-09-04T17:16:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/happyinwater.com\/nicholas\/2007\/09\/04\/cu-why-ee\/"},"modified":"2007-09-04T10:16:12","modified_gmt":"2007-09-04T17:16:12","slug":"cu-why-ee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyinwater.com\/nicholas\/2007\/09\/04\/cu-why-ee\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu-why-ee"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not going to say it was every easy to travel with Niko, but it certainly was never as hard as as it is now. When I think about it from his point of view, I understand why it is frustrating. He is mobile and has nine months of living without mobility to make up. He also doesn&#8217;t understand English, so he can&#8217;t even come close to understanding why, in god&#8217;s name, we would force him to sit in one place for six hours. We are in what I like to call the &#8220;<em>travel mobility-video gap<\/em>,&#8221; as illustrated in the graph below.<\/p>\n<p><img src=\"http:\/\/happyinwater.com\/nicholas\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/09\/trave-effort.gif\" alt=\"Travel effort\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The problem is there is a gap between Niko gaining mobility and us being able to distract him with videos. I can get him to watch a six minute Pixar short on my iPhone, but that doesn&#8217;t go very far on long flights. Especially when United adds three hours of delay to that trip. All of this is just to say, we flew to Kauai on Saturday, with our crazy, energetic, willful son. The hell if I&#8217;m going to let him dictate when or where we travel, so Niko locked in battle in a war between father and son. Sadly, it is one of those wars where nobody wins &#8212; everybody just ends up exhausted. I remember when I used to think traveling was hard. Long flights, cramped seats, inevitable delays. What a fool I was then.<\/p>\n<p>Jul found us a gem of a house on the east coast of Kauai. It has a good 100 yards of beach front, giving us our own beach &#8212; we rarely see another person. There is a beautiful sunrise in the morning, and it backs up against a really fantastic mountain range.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1319661814\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1227\/1319661814_f2f1653686.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Sunrise with Niko\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1318776543\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1129\/1318776543_453abc75e3.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"View from the back porch\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1318775085\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1133\/1318775085_a0ddd32efd.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Across the lawn\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The living room and kitchen together are a huge expanse of Berber carpet, meaning Niko has pretty much free run of the place. Much better than a 747. He isn&#8217;t walking yet, only standing, but I feel like he might take his first step while we are here.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1313754240\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1239\/1313754240_5047c55017.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Standing but not stepping\" height=\"500\" width=\"460\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Mark, Mand, and LC arrived a couple hours after us. Not much to report beyond a bunch of swimming, surfing, and digging in the sand. Niko loves the water (as if he had a choice) and is a huge fan of mangoes. But then again mangoes are candy dressed up as fruit, so this isn&#8217;t surprising.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/markandmandy\/1307474124\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1139\/1307474124_061a1a23e0.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Superstar\" height=\"400\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1313752322\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1157\/1313752322_5d28651e06.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Busy\" height=\"500\" width=\"375\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/markandmandy\/1306609161\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1337\/1306609161_d7386e265f.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Need a castle\" height=\"334\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1312872249\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1332\/1312872249_1aa0f66069.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Beach == one big sandbox\" height=\"500\" width=\"325\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1312873557\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1235\/1312873557_9d5f441173.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Floating\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1312874809\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1020\/1312874809_a28f908200.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Boy, stick, water\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1312867837\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1042\/1312867837_ebd73a4180.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Hugs\" height=\"500\" width=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/happyinwater\/1312866395\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1410\/1312866395_7be49129cc.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"B is for Beach\" height=\"375\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/markandmandy\/1316325325\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1123\/1316325325_e08ce9592a.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"Niko surf\" height=\"334\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/markandmandy\/1317207900\" class=\"tt-flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1305\/1317207900_d148ff509b.jpg\" class=\"tt-flickr\" alt=\"teaching\" height=\"391\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Mark and Mand do a much better job with photos. More on <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.markandmandy.com\/\">LC&#8217;s blog<\/a> and their <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/markandmandy\/sets\/72157601826193073\/\">flickr stream<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not going to say it was every easy to travel with Niko, but it certainly was never as hard as as it is now. When I think about it from his point of view, I understand why it is frustrating. He is mobile and has nine months of living without mobility to make up. 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